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Friday, November 23, 2007

Fri, 23 Nov 2007 14:15:42 GMT

剛剛要把MSN關上，準備開始再和casebooks搏鬥之際

想到要關就關上吧，再沒有要等誰上網、

等誰有空

鋼之鍊金術師結局有這樣一句說話：

他不讓我等了

依舊懷念那時的你

就這樣無牽無掛的說一句，可以嗎

Friday, September 21, 2007

Fri, 21 Sep 2007 02:12:39 GMT

just to say 'hi'

this xanga is nearly abandoned...

when i tried to type an entry, i found that i forgot how to use it...

now dou shift to facebook lu.

but ngo yau usually ng write yea in facebook bor

First week at Duke

Mon, 20 Aug 2007 03:11:03 GMT

orientation passed. a lot of info to absorb...
so ging that we had our first class activity already yesterday! swimming pool + bbq party. it's good~

books are sooooooo expensive here!!!!!!!!!!
i don't wanna spend US$550 just on textbooks for one semester... ><

the law lib is the funnest of all. simply found no textbooks in it...
only one copy per one TB. no reserve loan system (which means students in the law school will fight for one book...). and worst of all, some TBs are just not in the lib book list... - -"
and no librarian that day when i went there... perhaps there is a self-checking out books machine somewhere... i gotta find it...

o, and in Bryan centre, there was a McDonald's. the staff there didn't know where the restrooms were...

get used to the idea that 'i am the US'
the issue is no longer, 'o, new country'
but how to get to know this country well~ ^^

no sleep before the flights...~

Sat, 11 Aug 2007 19:02:29 GMT

things finally got settled lu~ the busiest week recently
thanks a lot those who helped my bro

and finally managed to put everything into the suitcases~ (at 4am HK time now...)

6 hours from the scheduled flight lu

nervous... ><

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Thu, 02 Aug 2007 09:12:05 GMT

6 hours from my flight back to hk...

i can't believe time flies so swiftly!!!... 2 months just passed. last night i was very nervous, about leaving the country, about getting back to hk... (and also my luggauge... finally i managed to close the suitcase lar!!! yeah~) i was so excited to see HK dollars again in my wallet after 2 months!!!

yesterday i walked around the city again and again, especially the Old Town. i sat at the Stare Miasto for a kebab under the sunset, i waited the clock of Royal Castle to strike at 7. i also went to some places that i missed before, eg university library (it's very nice!!! a lovely garden on the roof of the library!!! if law lib is like that jau ho lar...then i will study harder!!! =P ), tomb of unknown soilders, cementary (1 Aug is the anni of Warsaw Uprising in 1944), etc.

people here are very very nice. when i said goodbye to my colleagues, i nearly cried... they have taken care of me for 2 months. brought me around, lent me clothes when warsaw fell into autumn months earlier than it should be, cooked me polish food, shared their lunch with me, shared with me songs, movies, photos of their families, had birthday and name day get-togethers...

i have a sweet flatmate Ali (or roomate? as we should be according to the lease we had with the owner :P), buddy Karolina, friends like Robert and Michael, and all others trainees Neha, Carolina, Charlene, Stella, Ann, Herni, Eugene and more and more. nice memory in poland with all friends~

at start, i once thought that i shouldn't go to Poland, or India. but for whatever reasons, i am here in poland and 2 months passed lu.

i am more proud to be a chinese and happy with my HKSAR passport (as some of you know, i only got this passport few weeks before coming to poland, just because i dont need a visa).

i love our culture. i love the way we are.

i see no point why there should be globalization of cultures. i feel a lack of 'polish culture' here. i can hardly listen to a polish song here on radio, simply none. all shops play english music (esp US). it's really sad.

i also see people here who are ignorant of the world. ignorant of their own position. ignorant of that they should seek their own goals and interests in life rather than following people. a lack of self-reflection. and a lack of respect for people with different interests and cultures. shouldn't put one standard and judge others by that, right?
majority may not be correct, and majority here can be minority in another country.

even within one community, diversity is also a value~

but i also met people who see all the problems of their country and are trying hard to change it~

and sense of history is so strong here. all things were destroyed and rebuilt. 85% of the city was destroyed in the war... the Old Town was simply rebuilt but not original

for me, i also learned a lot. open my eyes to a totally exotic country. reflect about my values, my culture and my interests~

and of coz, taking care of myself lar~ COOKING lar! though i still can't make a sunside egg... why the yolk always ng keep the beautiful shape and why egg white flows around the pan ga... ><
but i can make some nice meals ga lar~ yau mo yan yau interest lei??? ng wui die ga bor :P

ok~ 2 hrs from leaving the flat~ =)

Saturday, July 28, 2007

Sat, 28 Jul 2007 06:14:30 GMT

吸取父母離異教訓霆鋒誓言與芝一生一世
2007-07-27

(星島日報報道)謝霆鋒稱得上娛樂圈的新聞人物，父母是謝賢、狄波拉，一出世已成眾人焦點，飽受壓力。由出道至今，霆鋒總予人「任性妄為」的感覺，只有26歲的他去年與張芝在事業如日方中之時，毅然選擇結婚生子，步入人生另一個階段，令圈中震驚，他與太太同樣為愛情而執、堅持。但雙方父母的婚姻破裂，沒有令霆鋒留下陰影，相反父母的經驗可使其婚姻更加鞏固。霆鋒、芝經歷過離合，分開過方知珍惜，他深信與太太定必白頭到老，可能外界會覺得芝愛霆鋒較多，但實則外間對霆鋒了解又有多少？霆鋒只能說一切盡在心中，有多愛？他與太太知道便?

(綜合報道)

　　謝霆鋒在電影《男兒本色》中飾演暴躁任性的警察，與現實中的他或多或少有點相似，他為了拍好這齣電影，身撞兩噸半巴士，又從9樓跳落街，對當時已當了爸爸的霆鋒來說，是任性嗎？他就是這種不愛解釋的人，做每件事都有自己原因，這次冒死拍驚險場面，為的都是留給將來的子女，讓子女知道爸爸並非一張白紙，一切是用血汗換來的，霆鋒不諱言這次是運氣賭博，挑戰了個人動作極限，「我諗日後都會為家庭減少再冒險，因為已經做到了，況且年紀愈來愈大，4年前做到的動作，現在未必得，如果現在叫我拍《新警察故事》那場30樓跳落街戲分，我都會有懷疑，始終差一年就一年。」年紀輕輕的他，就是這樣，經常說自己老。

　　每當談起家庭、太太和孩子，霆鋒笑容從心而發，幸福之情溢於言表。「我不覺得做了爸爸後，生活有甚麼改變，大家都知道我一向好『黐家』，分別是現在比以前更加心急返屋企，放工前兩小時已經不停睇表，個心已飛走了，始終太太有了小孩，很想盡快趕回去。」二十世紀的今日，很多夫婦都選擇不生育，霆鋒如此年輕便當爸爸，不擔心將來世界變成怎樣？「我一向都希望28歲前結婚，婚後做爸爸，我老竇40幾歲生我咪遲囉，因為我是明星，大家先覺得我早。」

「我會是嚴父」

　　霆鋒與芝的父母同樣經歷過婚姻失敗，他坦言不會有陰影，反而父母的經驗令他與太太的婚姻更鞏固，曾經與芝分開過再復合，大家會更珍惜一起的日子。有人會覺得經常將老公掛在口邊的芝是愛霆鋒較多，霆鋒笑笑的說：「外面睇出來，我是一個男人，怎能夠事事做到出面，我對太太有幾好？太太知道就夠，結婚是一生一世，不愛豈能結婚？」謝霆鋒一出世便成為焦點，將來他的兒子更挾兩代的壓力，爺爺是謝賢、是狄波拉，父母是霆鋒和芝，至今仍像一個「大細路」的霆鋒將來會怎樣教導孩子？他懶懶的笑謂：「再算啦，將來個個一定錫到，但都要出世先知點教，我就覺得自己是個嚴父多過芝。」

　　「最難做中間人」

　　芝自從結婚懷孕，全面停頓所有工作，問他知道太太有打算退出娛樂圈嗎？霆鋒自言是個古代的大男人，當然希望太太專心相夫教子，做個全職主婦及媽媽，但也要視乎太太意願。「其實芝一直夢想是做個好老婆，大家可能覺得她為了家庭全程投入，但其實我何嘗不是，講全程投入？和我拍過拖的人就會知道，無可否認的是我和太太都為了這個家庭付出和犧牲。」媽媽狄波拉曾一度不滿霆鋒與芝秘密結婚，經歷過短時間相處，狄波拉與芝婆媳關係甚佳，狄波拉更經常大讚這位新抱仔，霆鋒笑說：「我寧願她們相處融洽，有咩就鬧我啦，鬧我好過她們鬧交，最難是做中間人，我錯晒就好了。」

　　霆鋒曾經歷過人生低潮，惹了官非，感情路上兜兜轉轉，人生觀也隨之改變，變得成熟，他說：「未跌過怎能爬起，未失去過怎知珍惜，有時就是這樣，當最愛的人在你身邊，就算坐在沙發旁邊，你未必會理會，但有時失去了，又會渾身不舒服，其實我與芝輾轉都有6、7年，現在結婚了，這個關係維持得好好，我們性格是一凹一凸，她好喜歡照顧我。」外表反叛的謝霆鋒不愛解釋，事事放在心中，「其實我解釋來做咩，有幾多人是清楚我，一生人搵到5個知心友已好幸運，正如碧咸話齋，去英國球場踢波畀人噓，難道不踢波咩，最重要是自己爭氣。」

Friday, July 27, 2007

Fri, 27 Jul 2007 19:08:06 GMT

i have 22 issues of "Warsaw Voice" (a magazine) to read... for preparation of news bulletin for the council...
read dou faint gum larrr...

feel like yau d unwell gum tim...
and the joint above my thigh (equal to next to hip?) is really not good arrr...

my mum and i quarreled like boyfriend and girlfriend... and now i have to tum her back... - -"
but in fact dou gei funny =)*

said byebye to two colleagues in two days...
i am really leaving this country and coming back larrr
can't believe time fliesss

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Thu, 26 Jul 2007 19:44:26 GMT

幫OSA 20th anni 寫一篇article, 寫左超過1200 中文字 - -"

5年lu，由最初面試一直回想一遍

最大感受，還是人來人去

it is so good that i got into OSA, so good that i was an exco~

Rolling Stones

Wed, 25 Jul 2007 18:43:40 GMT

are anyone fans of Rolling Stones?

if so, feel jealous of me lar! coz i am having a FREE concert of it

they are now performing in a stadium right next to my home in Warsaw

so loud~

and 2 weeks ago, i had a FREE concert of George Michael as well (the one who sings Careless Whisper)

Monday, July 23, 2007

Mon, 23 Jul 2007 19:11:20 GMT

我同阿鳳既飲飲食食之旅（正確d應該係食食食之旅）已經圓滿結束

3 days in Berlin

2 days in Gdansk (Trio-city: Gdansk, Sopot, Gdynia)

德國d野真係好貴. 我見過最平既hotdog, in Berlin EURO$1, in Warsaw 1 PLN, 差唔多貴左四陪，所以不停淨係食飽

但係我地o係最後一日決定豪俾佢：食左一間貴價既鋪頭，真係好好好味~ 又去左RNBS做上等人食high tea （佢d 朱古力好出名，專用朱古力整monument）.
These few days: 雪糕, Kebab, hotdog/currywurst, lacuman (forgot how to spell), borek, cookie, many many types of breads, beer (I tried dark beer, not good at all, ho bitter ar)...

o係Gdansk, 我地又豪俾佢, 我試左shark steak (tasted the same as normal fillet). 跟住我地又去左食 tea.

Berlin 好靚~

Photos uploaded in facebook

But now legs ache, esp the joint which got hurt before

所以旅行其實都好chur ga :P

10 days before leaving Poland